Couples Therapy

Couples work helps people to understand themselves, their partners, and their issues. During couples therapy, clients are offered emotional support as they decide whether their partnership is viable. Relationship differences are clarified, and a determination is made as to the extent of common ground. Do you and your partner share sufficient values and interests to make your partnership mutually beneficial?

One of the most important objectives of couples work is learning the skills of conflict resolution. Most couples disagree and argue about various issues. But if you are able to learn how to resolve conflicts in a constructive fashion, disagreements do not have to destroy a relationship. The key is to be able to really listen to what your partner is saying. Are you just waiting for him or her to stop talking so that you can say what you want to say? Or are you making an attempt to truly understand what it is like for your partner to feel as he or she does?

Couples therapy teaches you the skills needed to resolve conflicts in a satisfactory manner. Any relationship can be saved if the invested partners want to save it, and are willing to compromise. If you have decided that your partnership is worth the effort, then couples work will help you learn the effective communication techniques that are the hallmark of all satisfactory relationships.

See also Relationship Problems under Services.